Shhh! Listen!

"Let no unwholesome word proceed out of your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear." Ephesians 4:29

As you walk with God, He is concerned about the words that come out of your mouth - the things that you share, confess, affirm, and speak into the lives of others. It is a good thing to ask the Holy Spirit to be a guardian of your speech. The Bible tells us that we should be more involved with listening than we are with speaking (James 1:19). It is freeing to know that God doesn't ask you to speak all the time, talk about everything, and have an opinion about everything. God does, however, give you great encouragement to speak things that are good, things that build others up, things that are bathed in grace, and things that come from His heart directly to yours. 

- His Footsteps, My Pathway

"Every time you speak, your mind and heart are on parade." You know, I have been one of the opinion that sharing everything was a good thing because it makes you transparent. However, after meditating on this, I clearly need to readjust my thought process, because I truly believe that if that transparency does not give a clear representation of Christ, than it's best to be silent. Zeno, a Greek Philosopher, puts it like this, "The reason we have two ears and only one mouth is that we may hear more and speak less." The world is full of those who would speak their minds, and we are all prone to doing so. Sadly, if we are not actively surrendering ourselves to the Lord, the things we speak may be corrupt and damaging to others. Matthew 12:34 says, "...the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart." 

God's Word on the subject:

- "Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O Lord." Psalm 139:4

- "And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell." James 3:6

- "Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark." James 3:5

- "The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit." Proverbs 15:4

- "A lying tongue hates those it crushes, And a flattering mouth works ruin." Proverbs 26:28

- "The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, but a perverse tongue will be cut out." Proverbs 10:31

- "When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise." Proverbs 10:19

- "The one who guards his mouth preserves his life; The one who opens wide his lips comes to ruin." Proverbs 13:3

- "Do not be quick with your mouth, do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God. God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few." Ecclesiastes 5:2

- "Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent." Proverbs 17:28

- "He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity." Proverbs 21:23

- "The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth what is evil; for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart." Luke 6:45

- "And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect." Romans 12:2

- "For the mind that is set on flesh is hostile to God..." Romans 8:7

- "So what shall I do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my mind; I will sing with my spirit, but I will also sing with my mind." 1 Corinthians 14:15

Dear Friend, I am among the worst of those that prattle on mindlessly, so this challenge is moreso for myself than you.

Challenge: 

1) Shhhhh! "Although the tongue weighs very little, few people are able to hold it." Do not make public speaking a habit. The world does not need to be aware of every defining detail of your being. When you feel you must speak, avoid the word "I", use as few words as possible, be encouraging and make sure that people hear what Jesus Christ has to say through you. May they see your devotion to the Lord and your love of others. We have been given a tongue so that we can make the Word of the Lord a priority. His opinion is all that matters! If they can't see or hear Christ in your speech, they should not be listening to you at all!! 

2) Listen well and often!! "The first step to wisdom is silence; the second is listening." Make a habit of really hearing what others have to say and learn from them; learn about them. When you hear what they have to say, consider carefully if (not when or how) you should respond; always pray before you do. Teach yourself to shut your mouth tight & open your ears wide. Take a lesson from the silent; even those without a voice thrive in relationships! "You can win more friends with your ears than with your mouth."  I'll bet you'd be surprised how much more you can learn about someone, and how much deeper you can go, if you'll practice being mute! What a valuable lesson we'd learn if we only spoke when talked to directly or asked a specific question.

How to speak without words:  It's said that 90% of communication is non-verbal. Consider this. 

"There are many ways that you can speak good things into the lives of others without ever saying a word. You can speak with the "face" of approval, with the "eyes" of understanding, with the "ears" of alertness, with the "smile" of delight, with the "tone" of kindness, with the "spirit" of compassion, with the "heart" of love, with the "hands" of mercy, with the "embrace" of acceptance, with the "handshake" of companionship, with the "glance" of interest, with the "tears" of comfort, with the "nod" of affirmation, and with the "touch" of tenderness."

- His Footsteps, My Pathway

My prayer(s) for us: 

"Show me your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths." Psalm 25:4 

"Search me, O God, and know my heart; try me, and know my thoughts: and see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." Psalm 139:23-24

"Set a guard over my mouth, O LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips." Psalm 141:3

My hope for us: "The Spirit of the LORD spoke through me; his word was on my tongue." 
2 Samuel 23:2

Find Joy in Him, Beloved!